It was a really tough year. A lot of silent battles. A lot of moments of uncertainty. I’ve wondered too many times how will I over come all of this. This year has really showed me that life is not easy. It is not. I can’t try to make it that way. Life is not fair and it never was and it won’t ever be. I know to many people sad to say some adult figures in my life that have fell into the entitlement trap. This trap gives you the mentality of you being a victim and you are not. Get over it and get on with it. As the year came to a close, I noticed one thing that I’m taking into this new year. I never quit. I chose myself. I’ve picked myself up again. The version of me that used to beg to be treated correctly is gone. And I’m going to make sure she is never coming back. So if you show up to my table and you have nothing to offer, if you show up to my table with behavior that hasn’t changed, if you show up to my table with empty promises then YOU ARE NO LONGER WELCOME TO MY TABLE! Please leave. I will no longer beg for bare minimum. If you can’t give me the bare minimum then I refuse to give you any of my energy. Life is too short. That was the best highlight of 2021 and the foundation placed for 2022.
2022 I’m ready for you!